We Can’t Control Others

Swayambunath Nepal, Kathmandu, Nepal

I learned a lot from traveling, me as human. I always think of something with open and logic, from the perspective of another side, why they do that. Is that their way to survive? Is that for their happiness or what? The answer is we can’t control others, their thoughts, their feelings, their wants, etc. We don’t own anyone. Even our parents, siblings, children, partner, and so on. We only own ourselves. So, the single person who we can control is ourselves.

I met the rude things happened. I would say that’s not true or not good in logically or in humanity. Again it's my own personal thought. 

Factly we can’t ask, “Why did you do it?", "Why are you so rude?", "You should do this", "You should be nice.”

No! Stop asking the way you want. It totally wastes our energy. We can’t change others, we can’t ask others to do the same as we do and think. All we can do and control is how to give a reaction from their action. 

We can say our disagreement, “That is not true. I don’t like the way you do”. But not expect for their agreement or changing. We can’t ask them to stop, but we can decide to stop interacting with them. :)